We were remembering Thanksgivings past. Our first
Thanksgiving after our wedding, we lived about 250 miles away, and both mothers
insisted we eat Thanksgiving dinner with them. Think about how full you feel
after one Thanksgiving dinner, and then multiply that by two. We did that again
the next year. The third-year, we told our mothers that we would eat Thanksgiving
dinner with one family and Chrismas dinner with the other. It was up to them to
get together and negotiate where we would eat for Thanksgiving and Christmas.
If they could not agree, we would not come for either holiday. That worked. It
could have had something to do with the fact that by then, we had the first
grandchild in either family. After another three years, we moved over 800 miles
away, had two more kids and going home for the holidays was next to impossible.
The next time we went away for Thanksgiving was to my grandfather’s. A twelve-hour
drive. We did that for about 12 years. Our children still remember their great
grandfather. We are glad that we allowed the kids to make those memories. They
still talk about it at Thanksgiving time. Great-Granpa passed 24 years ago, but
they still remember him.
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